Sometimes i wonder what goes on in the minds of the molester. we all try to make up excuses for our sins, but still we have to look at the spiritual as well as reality wise. but do we give those in the church a slap on the wrist for lusting after the little girls in the church, and just say oh they know better we just gone pray for thier healing of this . or do we get them the help they need. or do we just throw away the key and say the _____ with them. Hmmm? well i think personally that it starts with the molester, first do they know that they have a problem? do they want to stop? are they even tring to stop?
I was molested at the age of 9 up to 15 years old, by two diffrent men, one a drummer in a gospel group,and the other was a pastor, and at the time i wasnt the only little girl lthat these men was molesting, they also had wives and daughters of thier own. so how do we know when its all an act with the men in the church with high postions, well to be honest unless God gives you the spiritual eyes to see you wont know. so my question to my readers is how do we help someone who knows they have a problem but dont really want to come out of what they are in. In my book "Decisions i stated when we have these issues do we blame others,our parents, other adults that did the same thing to us when we was kids, do we blame generational cures or do we just blame that good old flesh of ours. well i feel that when a person continues do do wrong, lusting after young girls. cheating on there wives, and saying i know i have a problem but want stop. its non of the above fault but one and thats their flesh. there is no excuse for sin. its sad when the little girls come to you about a man in the church and tell you he been tring to mess with me and her and this one. and this same man been after you yourself and other women in the church but got a wife at home. one of my favorite sayings is, i will pray and love you from a distance but until you really want help, you want come out of what ever you are in.